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‘Thank God we didn’t divorce every time we thought of it’ – Sonia Ogbonna

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Like every other marriage, that of Sonia Ogbonna and Nollywood Actor, IK Ogbonna has faced lots of challenges, and if there’s anything to be grateful for, Sonia Ogbonna says it is not getting divorced each time they thought of it.

Penning down an emotional post to her husband this morning, Sonia Ogbonna wrote;

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From @sonialareinaa – Happy relationship is not found ,it’s built. Its ok to be confused,scared and lost. We can’t know something we never experienced before. When we did wrong it was simply because we didn’t know better. Now we do. It’s a process. Then you learn how to remove pride (Igbo man VS feministic,”i know it all” kinda independent stubborn alpha woman = you can only imagine) and listen to UNDERSTAND because you care,and NOT to REPLY satisfy your ego because you want to prove him/her “wrong” . It took us some time,but that’s also just fine. Thank God we didn’t divorce every time we thought of it when times were harsh Otherwise I would not be able to discover that u can fall in love with the same person more than once. The most genuine & exceptional male creature I have ever come across. Bless you. Thank you for all the happiness

 

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